Wednesday, February 4, 2009

Food and Quilts, yes they tie together!

I was doing some quilt blocks the other day and was looking for some scissors to
cut some threads. I pulled out the drawer and there were the pair that Bessie had given me one day when she was cleaning her drawers.
They are HUGE and they have her name engraved on the side. I know she must have used them when she was making her stuffed animals, with all the thick fake fur. It made me remember the things that she helped me on after Curt and I were married. She helped me when I was learning to sew. She was good at it and she was precise. She would look at my zippers and make me un-pick them if they weren't straight at the top. It made me learn to do it right if I was going to do it! She made the cutest stuffed bears and animals and the stuffed stick horse, sheep, bulls etc. that she made were awesome. I had to mend the bull the other day because it is falling apart from so much use. She was able to show Gina how to make them and she is carrying on with the talent! She took the time to sew my kids clothes when they were young, just for fun. I thought it was great that she would make matching outfits for my girls. She must have loved them to do that for them! I wouldn't have ever tried quilting if it wasn't for her. I love to go to the church and visit with the ladies and quilt, and I love belonging to the quilt guild, too! She was a great quilter and she liked being with the ladies at the church. They like to remember her when we are there, and I believe she is still considered "the boss" of the group! She also taught me alot about cooking. I know, she never really liked to cook, but, she did make some things that I still make today. I was making fried purple cabbage and some parsnips to go with dinner the other night and that also made me start to remember all those things again. I had never even heard of those two things until I married Curtis. (I have to make the parsnips just for me, Curt can't handle them!) I had Bailey and Quinton for dinner last night and had them try them and both of them liked them, so I guess I can make them for them too! So many times I am cooking something and remember that she liked that particular item. They will always stay in my memory because of that. She helped me learn another side of things that I wouldn't have had a chance to if I wouldn't have known her. I'm glad I had the opportunity.

6 comments:

kino said...

oh that is so sweet, thank you for always remembering her, i miss her so much, i can remember the cabbage and parsnips, my family doesn't like them so i don't do them that often, she did have a great talent for quilting and i am so glad i learned also, i love you, you are a great person. thank you for keeping her in the traditions. have a good night.

Grandma Duffy said...

Isn't it something that when we first get married we don't always know if we will ever really love our "other" mother but we grow to love them and miss them so much when they are gone! I know Bessie loved you, too.

gina said...

Thanks mom. There is one that I remember. She used to make egg salad sandwiches with scrambled eggs. I didn't know that until Stacie told me. I always thought they were the best. Love you mom. Thanks for teaching me all you have.

Ally said...

Oh tears. I can't even type... (couldn't talk if I were there.:)

Thanks for the post. Love gram and love you. Thanks for being such a great homemaker. You inspire me.:)

The.Marcellus.Family said...

HI KAREN!
Gall I miss you! I miss everyone from Bear River. I miss church so much. Even tho I didn't go that much, I still miss it more then ever. I am doing so good and I am so glad you commented on my blog.
How is everything with you going?
Anything new?

me said...

i love memories